Since we’re not in a series or a movie, you can’t immediately become a BDSM dominant woman or man. You will first need to talk about it as a couple.
The first thing you have to remember if you want to know how to be dominant in bed is to learn how to be bossy.
Now that you’re into character, the next thing that you need to focus on is what you’ll be wearing. If you want to look like those very sexy women dominating sex play, you have to dress for the role.
Start to dominate them by giving your partner a chance to worship every inch of you. You can give your partner a massage oil or allow them to enjoy the ‘chance’ to kiss your body.
Do you want to know one of the sexiest ways to dominate your man in bed? Invest in those sexy bed restraints and blindfolds and use them to tie your partner in bed.
While it’s not common to dominate a man in a relationship, you can dominate a man in bed. Boss your partner around and ask him to do things for you. After all, you are the boss, and he’s the Sub.
You can also choose what sex position to try. Make sure that this position is something you can take complete control of.
It doesn’t matter if you do it during intercourse or foreplay – if you talk dirty, it creates this naughty but sexy atmosphere. Make it hotter by whispering it in your partner’s ears.
We all have a naughty side, and this is the right time to unleash that sexy beast inside. Be annoyed, boss around, prioritize your pleasure, tie your partner, and be that dominant yet sexy partner.
Here’s another way to spice up your sexy time with dominance. Try roleplaying with your partner, and of course, choose roles that make you the boss.